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“I’m playing all the right notes—but not necessarily in the right order.”

When you’ve been brought up with the family sense of humour that I have been ‘blessed’ (?!) with, “I’m playing all the right notes—but not necessarily in the right order,” is a classic Eric Morecambe line that comes to mind quite readily.

Then recently I read this on my friend’s Facebook wall:

“Aoccdrnig to a rscheearch at Cmabrigde Uinervtisy, it dseno’t mtaetr in waht oerdr the ltteres in a wrod are, the olny iproamtnt tihng is taht the frsit and lsat ltteer be in the rghit pclae. Tihs is bcuseae the huamn mnid deos not raed ervey lteter by istlef, but the wrod as a wlohe.”

I don’t know how true that is, but it’s an interesting thought and behind the slightly trivial nature of this quote there is probably a whole realm of fascinating human biological and linguistical scientific facts (says the Human Communication Sciences graduate desperately trying to think of the technical terms – they’re probably the right words, but they may not necessarily be in the right order!)

Unlike Eric’s piano playing where the result was altered by the order of the notes, in the above paragraph we interpret the same message of the words even though the letters aren’t in the right order. This kind of spelling would score lowly in any classroom but you start to wonder if spelling really matters being as the message is still successfully delivered into our brains. Even when we spot a spelling mistake, we rarely misinterpret the writer’s meaning.

Recently, I’ve been reading, “Evangelism without Additives” by Jim Henderson. It’s subtitled, “What if sharing your faith meant just being yourself?” and contains lots of what I believe to be wise and Biblical advice about how we share the fantastic message of God that’s been given to us. Jim considers why some Christians find it hard to talk about what they believe and why “witnessing” is often a negative experience for all concerned. Sometimes we can feel we’ve messed our evangelism up because we’ve not been able to authentically communicate in the way we’ve been told is the “correct” way to do it. Some of us have begun to believe that the ordinary is not good enough and that what we need is to be some kind of spiritual salesperson with some sort of rehearsed ‘pitch’.

I share Jim Henderson’s opinion that communicating God’s love is not really about some formulaic evangelism programme. Eric Morecambe played a perfectly acceptable and effective musical tune; it just wasn’t the conventional one that Andre Previn was expecting to hear. I believe we don’t necessarily have to always get all the words in the right order or carry our message in a traditional or conventional way. Actually I think it’s often more effective if we don’t use that many words at all. Getting the message across that there is a God who loves us and cares deeply about every aspect of our lives is the most important bit. God can make our everyday ordinary encounters utterly extraordinary through us asking great questions and paying attention to the people Jesus misses most.

So if you sometimes feel discouraged about how you talk to people about your faith, be encouraged that you don’t have to be perfect; you just have to be yourself. God is bigger than our greatest efforts. The message can speak for itself through what we sometimes see as our mistakes.

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What are you giving up for lent?

Once the pancakes have been consumed, thoughts turn to Lent and the question of what to give up. I have given up chocolate( five times), biscuits(twice), desserts (once), shopping for clothes(once) over the years. Sometimes my motivation has been a mixture of wanting to focus on Jesus and build up to Easter remembrance and sometimes there has been a bit of a hidden diet plan in there too.
I am often intrigued by the non- believers I meet who are happy to tell me that they are giving up something for lent, without any thought of visiting a church or thinking about Jesus! An interesting cultural pull!
This year, I have thought long and hard and I think I am going to give up Church committee meetings for Lent. They are taking up far too many of my mornings, afternoons and evenings. Although they are often with lovely people talking about worthwhile things, the hours I spend in Christian meetings take me away from time with my family and take me out of the ‘real world’ of my neighbours, friends and work colleagues. How would my life look if for forty days I said ‘ yes’ to my friends and ‘ no’ to church agenda planners?
Three weeks ago a dear friend called and asked me to go to the cinema with her. Despite the fact that she usually kindly accepts my invitations to her to go to outreach events, I declined , apologising on the basis that I had too many other meetings that week. It was true, I had a church commitment every other night. But, it wasn’t a great excuse and I feel that I let her down.
Starting tomorrow, forty days, no church committee meetings, extra time for others. Activate my life for lent!
Thoughts? Comments?

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Making Friends – Meal Out

Sometimes as Churches we put so much effort into ‘evangelistic’ events, and sadly these seemingly ‘outreach friendly’ events are attended by Christians with very few non-Christians.

In order to share our faith we must be prepared to share a bit of ourselves. So here’s the tough question; how many non-Church attending, non-Christian friends do you have? I can safely say that 6 years ago the answer to that was none.

I discovered a few years ago how easy it can be to make friends when you put some effort in. 3 years ago a close friend of mine had just had her third baby, when the baby was about 4 weeks old she said to me one day; I really need a night out! She had some restrictions though, it had to be close to home and she had to be in bed for 10pm! So we decided to go to our local Italian restaurant one Thursday night just before Christmas. Now who should we invite? We decided to be brave and went around the playground randomly inviting anyone who was there. I even texted everyone in my phonebook! The text simply said ‘Ladies night out 7.30 pm meet at (insert local restaurant name here) would love to see you there’. Guess what, we had over 20 turn up. Must ladies didn’t know each other. One mum surprised me the most, I had met her a couple of times at children’s parties, I texted her anyway (I wasn’t even sure she would know who I was!) She replied immediately ‘Would love to come’.

It isn’t always hard to get alongside people and make friends. A meal was a perfect way to chat and get to know people better, the result of that night has been some beautiful friendships.

Easy to arrange, minimal organisation…Dare you?

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Activate Your Life in ten words!

This was our challenge- sum up all that Activate Your Life stands for in ten short phrases. A new banner with the correct web address was needed. We wanted to move away from pictures of women, always a bit restrictive- white, middle class looking, a certain age. We chose a symbol of three females standing together. Then there was space for some text. We could put our strap line- a network to resource and inspire Christian women to share God’s love with their friends, neighbours and work colleagues. But sentences are too wordy. So the decision was made to come up with ten words or short phrases that would sum up and explain who we are to anyone passing the banner.
We have a wonderfully diverse Dream Team; different ages, different church backgrounds, different family situations with a broad spectrum of personalities. We had a fun hour bouncing words around. Splurging all our thoughts out, counting up the favourites, rejecting any that were vetoed, narrowing it all down. We came up with nine adding on to our name. Just when we were all happy we sent out a final confirming email and off the debate went again!! More discussion followed before the design arrived at the door of the bemused printer.
Today I have seen the completed banner for the first time- I love it!!
We’d love to know your thoughts and reactions? Did we miss out any major concepts or phrases? Which ten would you choose? Send us in your thoughts below or on our Facebook group page. Next time we are ready to make a banner we promise to listen??
Activate Your Life
Evangelism
Sharing God’s Love
Life giving
Inspiring
Passion
Dangerous Women
Resourcing
Community
Friendship

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